What Is a Strap On Dildo and Why People Use It?

As the name implies, this is a type of dildo that is attached to a harness or vaginal plug and is designed to sit where a penis would be so you can penetrate your partner without hands. Usually, the harness goes around the pelvis, however, some models also have harnesses that can go on your hand, thigh, chest, forehead, foot and so on. These strap on sex toys will improve your pleasure and sometimes lead to orgasm without using your hands. You can use strap on sex toys for masturbation, vaginal penetration, oral sex stimulation and of course anal penetration with a partner of any gender or sexual orientation.

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Types of Strap On Dildos

Curved

As the name implies, these harness dildos have a curved design in order to provide direct stimulation of the G-spot in women and the P-spot in men which is also known as the male G-spot.

Briefs

The boxer brief strap-ons have a harness instead of straps and according to users, these types of dildos offer the best comfort. This type of dildo is attached to a pair of boxer-brief underwear which makes it the perfect choice for beginning peggers and penetrators. Unlike the traditional strap-ons that are designed to be attached to the thighs and waist, these ones certainly feel more secure.

Double

Also known as double dildos, the double strap-on dildos have two comparably sized dildos which are designed to stimulate penetration of both the wearer and the receiver. They can also be used for the vulva to anal penetration or vulva to vulva penetration.

Pegging

These strap-ons are designed for the penetrator to anally penetrate the receiver. These types of dildos have a slimmer harness design and are ideal for thinner and more curved dildos.

Hollow

These strap-ons are designed for men so they can insert their penis into the hollow strap-ons for more extended sex sessions. Although these types of dildos were mainly invented for men who experience erectile dysfunction, they are also popular among men who have no problems in the sack.

Strapless

As the name implies, this is a type of standalone dildo that has a vaginal plug on one end in order to provide the user with double penetration (vaginal and anal). These types of dildos are used as pegging devices or by two females for stimulating the vulva.

Removable

Some of these strap-ons come with metal or plastic O-rings that allow for changing different types of dildos according to personal preference.

Vibrating

Strap-on vibrating dildos are similar to vibrators and standalone dildos. They come with a remote that can control the small motor placed inside the dildo shaft.

Unisex

The last but not least type of strap-on dildos are the unisex models which come with adjustable straps and a crotchless design. This type of dildo is designed to fit around the legs and waist and can be used by both men and women.

Note: No matter the type of strap-on dildo you choose, using a lubricant is essential for a smoother and more comfortable experience. When in the search for the right lube, it’s recommended to choose one that will pair well with the dildo’s material.

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How to Clean and Store Dildo Properly?

Regardless of the type of dildo you choose, it’s important to keep it clean. No matter whether you use it alone or with your partner, it should be washed and cleaned after each use. This will ensure you stay healthy and do not transmit any STDs and bacteria. Dildos can be made from different materials, but the easiest way to clean them is with water and soap. However, you can always buy a special sex toy cleaning product. Some harnesses are machine washable while others require handwashing and cleaning with warm water and soap. Once clean, lay it on paper towels and leave it to air-dry. If the material allows it, you can deep clean it and disinfect it by submerging it in boiling water for just a few minutes.

So, it’s Saturday night, the big night that many people have been waiting for all week long, a date night for just as many, but you still haven’t figured it out what to do. The choice we all struggle with is whether to do what we usually do or try out something new. Truth be told, having fun friends is a fun event by itself, but there is nothing like the thrill of trying new things in life. If you still haven’t made your plans for the weekend, I have an idea for you. Stay tuned and I’ll give you all the details on how to play the popular 21 questions game.

The 21 questions game is what you and your friends have been missing in your lives. This ice-breaking game, very popular among teenagers, is a great idea if you want to get to know someone better. It doesn’t make a difference if you know them for a week or years, because there is always little something that our friends are hiding from us. Despite being an awesome game for a group of people, you can play this game with your crush and name it 21 dating questions game. Asking the right romantic, naughty, flirting and couples game questions may easily tell you if you are perfect for each other and if it’s even worth trying.

The questions for 21 questions game can be of all kinds: from questions you’ve wanted to ask for a long time but it never seemed to be the right time to very intimate and personal questions. If you don’t rule out a topic of questions before you start playing, only sky is the limit. The ultimate goal of this game is to get closer to the friends you’re playing with. Since lying is forbidden, getting sincere answers to all of your questions are guaranteed. If you notice a liar in the group, you can either warn him\her or exclude him\her from the game.

To start a game of 21 questions, you need at least 2 players and a maximum of 8 players. But I should warn you that, playing the game with more than 5 players makes the game mundane and slow. The perfect number of players, I think, would be 4. The game is pretty simple. First, you need to randomly choose the first player (Player 1) to be asked 21 questions by all other players. Every player of the group has their turn in asking a question to Player 1 and when the last, 21st question is answered, it’s time for the second target.

The best way to choose the next target is to let Player 1 have their revenge first on the player who posed the hardest and most embarrassing question. The game ends when every player of the group has answered 21 random questions or if you’re high on caffeine, until you unanimously say “Game Over”. Your selection of questions for your friends depends on your expectations. If you want to get closer to them, go for personal and cruelty-free questions. If you want to show your interest to your crush, you know what to do, Romeo.

If you’re up for a getting-to-know kind of night or simply fun-wrapped night, this is the game you should try out. I can’t find one single reason why should your hanging always be the same and 21 reasons to be different.

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Still in doubt? Well, here are a few reasons to start writing love quotes or poems.

• Writing love quotes or love poems will help you straighten out your feelings. We all know that life is hard and confusing at times. But, by writing down your emotions you will sort them out.
• The life you live and the experiences that you go through, the good, the bad and the ones on a day to day basis are unique. There isn’t another person on this planet that has gone through the exact same things that you went or go through, and that’s why everyone is special. If you write a love quote or a love poem you will share your own unique piece of life.
• Poetry is a really powerful way to express yourself and your emotions. Everybody has something they want to say screaming on top of their lungs. Maybe it’s a confession of love, maybe you’re mad at someone, or maybe you just can’t stand rude people. But, whatever that thing might be writing it down as a poem or quote gives you the chance to express yourself, you can even share it by reading it out loud and even publishing your work.
• Writing love poems or love quotes can help you deal with some of the problems you have. Maybe your crush just broke your heart or you didn’t get your dream job. When these types of events happen you get overwhelmed by your emotions, and you can’t just hit rewind and try again in the hope of changing the outcome. Instead, you can write a poem about how disappointed, furious or sad you’re feeling. By pouring your emotions out on a piece of paper and not keeping them bottled up you will easily cope with them, get over the bad things and realize that you will come out on top. Plus, by sharing your poems or quotes you can find other people that can relate, easily connect with and make you feel less alone in this big world. It’s a sort of free therapy right at home.
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There are a lot more reasons to write love quotes and love poems and we hope that these got you inspired and motivated to do some writing, and once you start you can’t stop!